Main residence with you; the other side wants alternating
In 4120 of the 5442 comparable rulings the court decided what you ask for. The other 1322: alternating in 157 (what the other side asks), with the other parent in 1165.
- It can help to keep doing what supports your position: a stable routine, a dated care log and factual communication.
- It can help to keep messages with the other parent short and about the children; your own conduct can be raised against you.
- It can help to prepare answers to the other side's arguments (chapter 3) before the hearing.
ECLI:NL:OGEAA:2018:650ECLI:NL:OGEAA:2019:784ECLI:NL:OGEABES:2026:150The court's reasons are in these rulings. What the court pointed at there is what you can prepare for.